Family First… Even for Swingers

A couple weekends ago on February 3rd Hubby & I were going to host a Hair Metal Swinger Party at The Korral in Pennsylvania, one of the Swinger clubs we adore. Then life kicked. Hubby’s Dad called four days before the event at the Korral to say Hubby’s Mom had been admitted to the hospital & she was not doing well. We flew down the next morning. We did get to spend some time with Mom, but on the very night we were supposed to be hosting our own party several States away, Hubby’s Mom had a stroke. We were able to see her but she passed later the day of the 4th. Hubby was heartbroken but determined to stay with Dad a few more days to help him get his bearings back.

Were we upset we missed our own event?  Not really. We did feel like we let some people down since we couldn’t find anyone that was able to represent Swing! the evening at the club.  But, the Korral owners took care of everyone from what we have been told & hopefully people had a good time. Family is more important than a party. Swinging is just a hobby for us.

We are going to a Meet & Greet hosted by some friends this Friday night in Alexandria, VA.  They call themselves “The Unicorn Squad” since it is three single women hosting the M&G. Swingers call single women in the Lifestyle “Unicorns” because they are supposed to be so hard to find.  Who knew there was a herd of them near Washington, D.C.?  We need this night out.

One day, we’ll have to do another Hair Metal themed event again though.  Hubby already bought the cheetah print leggings and the 10 inch lifelike dildo he was going to put in his pants because we all know rock stars are packing some serious cock.  LOL 

Swing! is back…

Really, we never went anywhere, life just got in the way. Kids going back to school. Weddings galore. Hubby had a traumatic back injury… You know: life. Anywho, we are back with another event at Shadows Social Club in Hyattsville, MD, THIS Saturday, January 13th! Gulp… Well to sort of follow with the theme of what we’ve been doing out here on the east coast freezing our asses off for the last few weeks, we are gonna have a pajama party! Yes, you can wear your pajamas all day & night yet again AND leave the house for a change. Whoo-hoo!

I’ll just be glad to get out of the house & maybe we’ll find some new friends to fuck.

Meet & Greet Fun with MISCHIEF XXXmas in July!

People NOT currently in the Swinger Lifestyle seem to have this impression that it’s all people getting together & fucking right then & there no matter who or where they are.  That’s not how a Meet & Greet works.  Swinger Meet & Greets are usually held in “Vanilla” (Swinger term for non-Swinger) Bars or Clubs.  Meet & Greets are a great way for meeting new people in the Lifestyle without feeling pressured to go & play.  Let’s face it, not everyone is interested in playing with everyone & Meet & Greets give you a chance to get to know people in a neutral setting. Many of our Swinger friends we just like to hang out with, we don’t always intend to fuck all of them, some are just good friends we can be ourselves around.

The thing about Meet & Greets is they can sometimes be difficult to arrange. Many venues get a little nervous when you ask them if they would be willing to host a Swingers’ event even when on-premise play would not be allowed.  Once you find that bar or club that says “yes, have your party here,”  you never want to let them go.  They are doing a huge favor to the Swinger community by hosting those events for us.

So, where is this heading?  LOL  We have some friends, Mischief Social Club, hosting a Meet & Greet this weekend at The Lodge in Boonsboro, MD and we want it to be as successful as possible for Mischief & the Lodge because we all win if there is a successful regularly scheduled Meet & Greet in the area.

If you have ever been curious about Swinging, a Meet & Greet is the event to attend.  You can meet others in the Lifestyle without the pressure to play.  Once you meet “us” (Swingers), you will find, we are just like you.  Just a LOT more fun.

Here’s the details from Mischief for their Meet & Greet:

Mischief presents….XXXMas in July! Meet & Greet

Mischief presents….XXXMas in July!
Meet & Greet

Bring out the red velour with white fur trim
And matching lingerie
Make sure it’s figure hugging short and tight
And shows all you’d want to see
Show off your moves on the dancefloor, chill out in the comfy lounge, grab a cool cocktail at the bar.

The Lodge

21614 National Pike
Boonsboro, Maryland 21713

$4 Cover; $7 After 10PM
21+ w/Valid Govt ID, No Exceptions

Beats by DJ ZANDER
High-Energy • Top 40 • House + Club Classics & Anthems

 

 

A great time at Shadows in D.C.

red grunge textureWell, the first big event for Swing! at Shadows finally came this last Saturday and WOW did it exceed our expectations.  We thought maybe 100 people might come to the event at Shadows on 4/22.  Instead it as well over 230 people!

The Shadows staff did an amazing job getting people checked in, giving tours & working the bar in an efficient manner.

Our own DJ Kurve played a mix of 90’s hits and current hits that kept the place hopping.

At one point we wondered where everyone went.  A little peek back in the main play areas & we knew… a massive orgy had broken out with at least 20 if not 30 people participating.  What an amazingly beautiful sight.

We can’t wait to head back to Shadows for another go round!

No Expectations… (But, I want an Orgy)

A few years ago we were hosting a Meet & Greet at one of our favorite venues the night of my birthday. As a surprise, Hubby had gotten a cake, decorated our hotel suite & invited 15-20 of our closest friends back to our suite for *ahem* cake & cocktails.  What ensued was the best orgy sex I have ever had.  I fucked 4 men that night & had oral with a few others (guys & girls) as well.  BEST BIRTHDAY EVER!

This Saturday we are back at that same venue hosting another Meet & Greet; actually we have been back there several times over the years.  Sometimes there has been “fun” back at the hotel, other times we didn’t click with anyone else or plans just didn’t gel &Hubby & I played alone, or sometimes Mother Nature interferes (periods can be inconvenient when you are a Swinger).  You just never really know.

Anyway, I am reminiscing about this today particularly because this Saturday may be the last time we can host a Meet & Greet at this club. To say we want to go out with a BANG! would be an understatement. But, we have been at this long enough to know that one of the cardinal rules is & will always be “NO EXPECTATIONS”.  Things rarely happen perfectly as you plan in the Swinger Lifestyle. I know I can sometimes be a little picky with potential play partners & since Hubby & I only play as a couple (we don’t play separate), that can limit our opportunities as well.

So, we can plan, we have bought snacks & enough alcohol & mixers for an after-party back at our suite. We can hope, we’ve informed a few of our friends we have gotten a hotel suite. We just can’t assume anything will actually happen. Because, you really, really just never know if anything will.

Liberator Heart Wedge®

Oh, but I did ask Hubby if I should bring the Liberator Wedge he got me for Valentine’s Day to the hotel, you know, just in case. He said, “YES!”

Swing Out Socials GLOW PARTY at The Korral

So, you may or may not know that Hubby & I run our own Swingers’ group & host Swingers’ events for our group called Swing!.  Being that we are almost always the ones running the events or parties we frequently don’t get much of a chance to play when we go to a Swingers’ Club event.  We are hoping to change that this weekend.  😜

I had noticed a couple weeks ago that we had gotten invites to the Glow Party being hosted by our friends at Swing Out Socials (SOS) in Pennsylvania at one of our favorite Swingers’ clubs, The Korral. Hubby said we should definitely go and try to have some naughty fun.  I arranged a sitter for us & tomorrow we are heading out to our first Glow Party.  Yes, you heard that right, we have NEVER been to a Glow Party before. We’ve been checking all of the usual lifestyle sites we are on (SwingLifestyle, Kasidie, LoveVoodooAltPlayground, Quiver, SwingTowns) & this SOS event is already looking like it is going to be CRAZY.  Combined with all of the sites & SOS’s Facebook group, there are easily 250-300 people signed up to attend.

We’ve got the sitter arranged, we bought our UV reactive & glowing clothes & accessories… We are ready to get our Glow & Swing on!