CANDY LAND: Big Party with SOS, Swing! & TPA

At Swing! we usually don’t consider ourselves prone to hyperbole.  We generally don’t claim that our events & parties are “EPIC!” or “YUGE!”.  Don’t get me wrong, we’ve had some pretty impressive events; at one of our events the club ran out non-disclosure forms for new members. (Most Swingers clubs require some sort of privacy agreement.) But when we do have something turn out that way, we are just as pleasantly surprised by the turnout. A massive attendance is not our primary goal. Honestly, we just want to have fun.  If that means 400 or 14 show up we do our best to make things fun.

Why do I bring this up? We are co-hosting CANDY LAND this Saturday, August 5th, 2017, with Swing Out Socials (SOS) & The Private Affair (TPA).

First, SOS… Swing Out Socials is another group in the Mid-Atlantic region like us, Swing!. The difference, SOS has been organizing Swinger parties & events for at least NINE YEARS. In that time, SOS has built up a significant following because they organize excellent events and are very inclusive & friendly (we are too, BTW). They have no limits on age except you must be legal for the venues (mostly 21 years or older), they have no racial requirements, no height or weight requirements (neither do we)….  SOS has been so successful because they are so welcoming, friendly & inclusive. They had an event at another club earlier this year where the club actually reached capacity & people who hadn’t made reservations could not get in.  That was over 400 people! Needless to say, when I say an SOS event is monumental that is NOT hyperbole.


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Now, what about The Private Affair (TPA)?  TPA is in Port Deposit, MD, and has been open over SEVENTEEN YEARS. TPA seems to be the best kept secret when it comes to Swinger Lifestyle clubs in the Baltimore/Washington, D.C. region though. The last couple of years they are finally starting to get the recognition they deserve. One thing that is amazing about TPA is their attention to detail, every room is themed & immaculately clean.  No rooms are just a bed with a light, every single room is decorated differently. You may be thinking “so what?” Well, last year when our friends at Quiver came up to co-host our Beach Blanket Bingo! party, they/we got a private tour before the club opened.  The Quiver folks were very impressed.  Coming from Texas they had been to numerous clubs throughout the U.S.. When one of them asked our tour guide how large TPA is he replied, “We have 27 playrooms.  Well, 26 right now as we are remodeling one room & it’s closed.”


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Quiver said, “The most number of playrooms we have seen at a club anywhere was 20!”


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Our guide replied with a smile, “Really?  That is interesting!”

So, not only do they have A LOT of playrooms, but they are all clean & themed to keep things interesting & fun. TPA also keeps things fresh by updating their main room, dance floor & bar area. The staff is friendly and helpful and the owners are always eager to find out what you think about the club & what they can do to improve. We have never had to wait long to get served at the bar as they are always well-staffed. Another club in the region may get voted the best East Coast Club in the U.S. in the Annual Lifestyle Awards but, if you actually attend the “winner’s” club and TPA you will see, there is NO comparison… TPA wins hands down.

CANDY LAND with Swing Out Socials & Swing! at The Private Affair, august 5th, 2017.

So, this is where we stand for this Saturday, August 5th.  We are co-hosting an event with one of largest, friendliest groups that you will ever meet at one of the friendliest & classiest Swingers clubs with an amazing array of playrooms & amenities. The potential for this Swinger soirée is quite possibly going to be EPI… (Nope, no hyperbole today.) We’ll just see how it goes.

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Meet & Greet Fun with MISCHIEF XXXmas in July!

People NOT currently in the Swinger Lifestyle seem to have this impression that it’s all people getting together & fucking right then & there no matter who or where they are.  That’s not how a Meet & Greet works.  Swinger Meet & Greets are usually held in “Vanilla” (Swinger term for non-Swinger) Bars or Clubs.  Meet & Greets are a great way for meeting new people in the Lifestyle without feeling pressured to go & play.  Let’s face it, not everyone is interested in playing with everyone & Meet & Greets give you a chance to get to know people in a neutral setting. Many of our Swinger friends we just like to hang out with, we don’t always intend to fuck all of them, some are just good friends we can be ourselves around.

The thing about Meet & Greets is they can sometimes be difficult to arrange. Many venues get a little nervous when you ask them if they would be willing to host a Swingers’ event even when on-premise play would not be allowed.  Once you find that bar or club that says “yes, have your party here,”  you never want to let them go.  They are doing a huge favor to the Swinger community by hosting those events for us.

So, where is this heading?  LOL  We have some friends, Mischief Social Club, hosting a Meet & Greet this weekend at The Lodge in Boonsboro, MD and we want it to be as successful as possible for Mischief & the Lodge because we all win if there is a successful regularly scheduled Meet & Greet in the area.


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If you have ever been curious about Swinging, a Meet & Greet is the event to attend.  You can meet others in the Lifestyle without the pressure to play.  Once you meet “us” (Swingers), you will find, we are just like you.  Just a LOT more fun.


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Here’s the details from Mischief for their Meet & Greet:


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Mischief presents….XXXMas in July! Meet & Greet

Mischief presents….XXXMas in July!
Meet & Greet

Bring out the red velour with white fur trim
And matching lingerie
Make sure it’s figure hugging short and tight
And shows all you’d want to see
Show off your moves on the dancefloor, chill out in the comfy lounge, grab a cool cocktail at the bar.

The Lodge

21614 National Pike
Boonsboro, Maryland 21713

$4 Cover; $7 After 10PM
21+ w/Valid Govt ID, No Exceptions

Beats by DJ ZANDER
High-Energy • Top 40 • House + Club Classics & Anthems

 

 

Life happens…

Well, we were supposed to have the most awesome Pin-Up event ever on June 17th at the Badd Kitty Club in Feredonia, NY, but, life happens.  Originally we had planned to have Ginger Snap from pinupbyginger.com doing free Pin-up photos; live music by The Irving Klaws & the rest of the evening’s entertainment by DJ Kurve. Ginger had a family emergency & had to cancel.  The club asked if we could reschedule for later this summer but Swing! is booked with other events through November of 2017. The club felt that without the Pin-up photographer that the event just wasn’t going to work out so they cancelled.  *sigh*

On the plus side, now we have a really awesome event banner we can hang up in our play-room.

No Expectations… (But, I want an Orgy)

A few years ago we were hosting a Meet & Greet at one of our favorite venues the night of my birthday. As a surprise, Hubby had gotten a cake, decorated our hotel suite & invited 15-20 of our closest friends back to our suite for *ahem* cake & cocktails.  What ensued was the best orgy sex I have ever had.  I fucked 4 men that night & had oral with a few others (guys & girls) as well.  BEST BIRTHDAY EVER!

This Saturday we are back at that same venue hosting another Meet & Greet; actually we have been back there several times over the years.  Sometimes there has been “fun” back at the hotel, other times we didn’t click with anyone else or plans just didn’t gel &Hubby & I played alone, or sometimes Mother Nature interferes (periods can be inconvenient when you are a Swinger).  You just never really know.


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Anyway, I am reminiscing about this today particularly because this Saturday may be the last time we can host a Meet & Greet at this club. To say we want to go out with a BANG! would be an understatement. But, we have been at this long enough to know that one of the cardinal rules is & will always be “NO EXPECTATIONS”.  Things rarely happen perfectly as you plan in the Swinger Lifestyle. I know I can sometimes be a little picky with potential play partners & since Hubby & I only play as a couple (we don’t play separate), that can limit our opportunities as well.


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So, we can plan, we have bought snacks & enough alcohol & mixers for an after-party back at our suite. We can hope, we’ve informed a few of our friends we have gotten a hotel suite. We just can’t assume anything will actually happen. Because, you really, really just never know if anything will.


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Liberator Heart Wedge®

Oh, but I did ask Hubby if I should bring the Liberator Wedge he got me for Valentine’s Day to the hotel, you know, just in case. He said, “YES!”

Swing Out Socials GLOW PARTY at The Korral

So, you may or may not know that Hubby & I run our own Swingers’ group & host Swingers’ events for our group called Swing!.  Being that we are almost always the ones running the events or parties we frequently don’t get much of a chance to play when we go to a Swingers’ Club event.  We are hoping to change that this weekend.  😜

I had noticed a couple weeks ago that we had gotten invites to the Glow Party being hosted by our friends at Swing Out Socials (SOS) in Pennsylvania at one of our favorite Swingers’ clubs, The Korral. Hubby said we should definitely go and try to have some naughty fun.  I arranged a sitter for us & tomorrow we are heading out to our first Glow Party.  Yes, you heard that right, we have NEVER been to a Glow Party before. We’ve been checking all of the usual lifestyle sites we are on (SwingLifestyle, Kasidie, LoveVoodooAltPlayground, Quiver, SwingTowns) & this SOS event is already looking like it is going to be CRAZY.  Combined with all of the sites & SOS’s Facebook group, there are easily 250-300 people signed up to attend.

We’ve got the sitter arranged, we bought our UV reactive & glowing clothes & accessories… We are ready to get our Glow & Swing on!


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